Love is when the thinker is not. The thinker is not an entity different from thought; thought and the thinker are one. The thinker is the thought. Love is not sensation; it is a flame without smoke. You will know love when you as the thinker are not. You cannot sacrifice yourself, the thinker, for love. There can be no deliberate action for love, because love is not of the mind. J. Krishnamurti Commentaries on Living Series I Chapter 71 `Clarity in Action'