It is insanely hard to grasp this, but ...
Love not only doesn't force people into bad situations, but it also does NOT force people into what is true, good, right, best, or healthy. It doesn't do this in personal relationships, within collective groups, or from the State over society.
We almost all agree that force into bad situations is bad, but it is very difficult to grasp that force into good situations is also, and equally, bad.
https://youtu.be/UNH40vVYtGg