Hello noble friend! My name is Dr. Peter Yong. I'm a philosopher, writer, coach and consultant (though I prefer to think of myself as a noematic psychopomp). I apply my expertise in philosophy gained by over 20 years of experience in the field to help people reassess their values, reorient their lives, and forge their identities anew after their worldviews have been shaken.
Major life transitions such as the end of a relationship, career, or political or religious affiliation force us to step back and reevaluate who we are and what we are striving for. Like Dante the pilgrim at the outset of the Divine Comedy, we awake to find ourselves in a dark wood with no clear way out. In such moments of crisis, we come to question the values that grounded our identities and led us to our current impasse. The term βcrisisβ is apt here, coming from the Greek noun ΞΊΟΞ―ΟΞΉΟ, itself deriving from the verb ΞΊΟΞ―Ξ½Ο meaning to judge, decide, or interpret. In ΞΊΟΞ―ΟΞΉΟ we face the daunting challenge of reevaluating our values to determine whether they are authentic, i.e. adopted according to our own rational standards, or inauthentic, i.e. adopted through external pressures and psychological manipulation. Though this situation can be frightening, it can also prove to be a gift. As the poet HΓΆlderlin observed βwhere the danger threatens, so also grows the saving powerβ (Wo aber, Gefahr ist, wΓ€chst/ Das Rettende auch.) For, it is in these moments of ΞΊΟΞ―ΟΞΉΟ that it becomes possible to arise from what Heidegger calls the βthey-self (das Man)β and step forth into authentic Being. The βtheyβ, according to Heidegger, operates as an invisible dictatorship, shaping our view of the world through the value judgements of indeterminate others (Being and Time, H126).
When our worlds collapse, and we are forced to stand amid the ruins and ponder what it all amounted to, we enter the dizzy space of freedom. We are able to see how our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors have been constrained by a value system acquired simply by virtue of being thrown into a particular family, religion, or culture. But we are, at the same time, also made aware of the possibility of freely adopting a value system of our own on the basis of reason. This possibility is what Kant called Enlightenment (AufklΓ€rung), βthe emergence from oneβs self-incurred immaturity, viz., the inability to use oneβs own understanding without the guidance from anotherβ (Kant, What is Enlightenment?). I help people seize their autonomy and reforge their identities at this primordial level.
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